Jealousy. Isn’t that a funny feeling? A feeling that makes fun of you because you feel stupid if you exhibit it. And then, you put up a funny smile to hide it. That funny smile, in turn, encourages other people to make fun of you. So, you anyway end up looking and behaving funny in attempts to hide this funny feeling called jealousy.
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Ever thought why we feel jealous? Is it a feeling which shows that we’re insecure? Even when there’s no space for any insecurities, we feel jealous. We just do. Why? Is it bad to feel jealous? It just happens, right? So, nothing bad about it, right? It’s not bad. It’s not good. It’s funny.
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Oh btw, I tried to find out my shade of green, that is, my Jealousy Quotient here. Here’s the result 😀
Cucumber Green
Yeah. You get jealous. So what? Everybody does. You’d be lying if you said you didn’t. But that doesn’t mean you’re gonna let your jealous feelings sabotage this coolness thing you’ve been working on…
and that’s how I look when I’m J 😀
Martha said:
Hey bubble, I’m the first to comment on this today! 🙂 So how have you been? jealous?? I hope not. ha ha….. but then at your age…there are lots of opportunities for jealousy…that’s what the 20’s are for…for love, friendships, jealousy, rivalry etc etc etc……. ok, it’s not all about that…though it can occur…and jealousy can be a life time "sickness" for some possessive people…and where there’s no trust.
Thank God, between me and my hubby…there’s little room for jealousy…ok, hope you’re looking sun-shiny today, and not green!! 🙂
Take care dear!
p.s now where is the creative recipe from you??? The orang utans are waiting!!!!! wed is the last day.
The said:
yeah yeah… we all get jealous many times,,… i cant talk abt all…
but i get jealous many times for sure… like when u enjoywith GF… lol
when u write such nice notes……
when people get whatever they dont deserve ….
then and in many other cases .. i get J ;P
but after few mintues, i slap my head and say.. dumboo ani…
lol…
par haan… kaaphi baar jealous feel kiya hai maine…
thanks for reminding
where did u get this pic from….. ??
EnjoY!!!
Beni!
sonia said:
Hey bubble, cucumber greem,nice colour,looks nice with the colour of your space too 🙂 !
Such a normal emotion isn’t it?yet ppl want to hide it…agree with what u have written@
Will be back later,have lots to write,kid is hollering for dinner,need to have it put 🙂
tc bubble,see you later
love
dids
Kim said:
hey!!!!
ur rite bt jealousy…once i wrote n article bt it which got published in the sch mag…so i guess i’ll put it on my space
neway bye tc n keep blogging
kim
sillygloop said:
A competitive spirit is good in some areas of life. Of course one can get jealous now and then but I guess one could feel jealous about the situation rather than the person and that would be a good thing!
Enjoy the rains and don’t ask for my boat, I’m keeping it ready for the Bangalore downpours to start 🙂
sweeti's said:
We all are jealous some times..thats normal behaviour…Dont feel wierd haha
Divy u get over that..a bit jealous is normal But when it gets worse.U have to say to urself STOP……why am i doing this to myself ??? Coz the only one that suffers is U.
Much love from sweeti
Nish said:
hey bubbles!!! well i must say tht theres nothing bad in being jealous at all. i dont see nething bad atleast. after all people are jealous bcoz they think wht they deserve is been given to someone else. and theres no harm in thinking about yourself na 😀 and ya one more thing about ur new blog. its topic made me smile the letter "J" to be more precise 🙂 u’ll know why when u see my new blog’s topic 😀 hope to see ur comments soon 😀 byes and tc keep smiling always.
Rhea said:
hey dats a cool test..i got cucumbr green too..so true..we all feel jealous..for wierd reasons at times too..its the whole why-is-her-sky-more-blue-than-mine stuff..haha..but sure feels gud to be ms.J at times.. ❤
Nish said:
hehe yeh tht was a biiiggg comment lolz. thnx a lot for ur valuable comments. well yeh m tryin to live wid the change. but its not so easy either. so many things on my mind. and then the music also somehow tends to remind me of those lonely momets 😦 but well trying is wht we can do. so i am ryt now. lets see wht happens next 🙂 hope good. and ya i have changed the font colour also. 😀
tek care and always keep smling
deepu said:
hey divoo, thank you for painting those lovely words…i m tired….i need some rest now…i wonder if that smile is stil there..hop you have urs !!!
Jitender said:
I am always being "J". Oh dear.
Adam said:
In my 41-year history I have learned that Jealousy stems from two different sources. The first being the fear of losing someone that you love, the second because of guilt one feels for infidelity, so they impose jealousy upon their mate because of their own guilt.
I was fortunate as a child. My parents were swingers/wife swappers so jealousy wasn’t an issue. My wife and I had an open relationship for a couple years after she cheated on me, but it only made us stronger. It made us realize that we don’t want to be swingers, so we are just monogamists now ~chuckles~.
I forget what color green I am. That site has like a million of those purity tests ~chuckles~.
Love,
Adam
Destiny Queen said:
Ladoo maan ya na maan…i have not felt jealous….u may call me a coward for that….i have had very many order of feelings but jealousy nahi hui…haan gussa zaroor ata hai….once in a blue moon…..aur yu hi daantna tho meri adaat hai …laad ata hai tho daantthi hu! koi seriously leta hi nahi thub mujeh!
my brother did many a times say i was jealous of him as he got so pampered…i felt angry not jealous! if anger is jealousy then well maybe i have been jealous!
I always looked at things or life as its meant to be….
mujeh kahi laga jo mereh paas hai woh shayaad bahut kum logon ke paas hai….high order of feeling…sabse laad churana ata hai mujeh…and that has kept me satisfied most!
Materlistic things se kabhi jaali nahi…i left millions behind! walked with 500 bucks in my pocket…..i saw life in such colors…ki laga log humseh jealous ho ya hum unseh?
dookh sookh tho zindagi ke pehlu hai….kahi dhoop kahi chauv…
but i still feel i was never jealous!
i use this term to make sumone feel khush! ki hey im jealous of you!
muah
Enter said:
Spice up your life!
sherifa said:
I never felt Jealous … never did
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ok soooo what -_-
i do feel it but like u said
It dose not mean that I will let it control me
And I do try to get rid of it
As soon as I can
tc ^^
sherifa said:
me 2 Cucumber Green
But it is not fear the chooses are all bad I mean I will really feel happy for my bro
Mandeep said:
h mm . .
cucumber . . like it . its cool .. 😀
Njoi
linda said:
THE day she cried is beautiful I have not visited in a long time
it is linda from califonria also and I feel I am so Uncommon… makes you ponder.. you are a natural poet and artist it comes easily to you I think your mind is very intune with the universe and nature, and spirit. nice to come to visit
linda said:
I think this is funny, I like that color , on you hehehe
maybe I take this self portrait back , I recently did a post
on this subject… you fit right in. hehehe you funny girl